"The way you walked was thorny, through no fault of your own, but as the rain enters the soil, the river enters the sea, so tears run to a predestined end. Now you will have peace for eternity."
-- Maleva, the Gypsy Woman, The Wolf Man
What matters is that the "man" in question has, at long last, found peace.
May we all find peace, love, and the end of tears: these things, despite what may prove our unchangeable circumstances.
Love and affection,
CoCo